If you are concerned about someone you have met online, consider the following:
1. Have you actually met them in person?
Repeated excuses for avoiding an in-person meeting should be treated seriously.
2. Have they avoided video calls?
A refusal to speak face-to-face may indicate that the person is not who they claim to be.
3. Do their photographs appear elsewhere online?
Reverse-image searches can identify photographs that have been copied from other websites or profiles.
4. Have they moved you away from the dating platform?
Fraudsters may quickly encourage communication through WhatsApp, email or other messaging services.
5. Have they asked for money?
Any request for money should be treated as a significant warning sign.
6. Have they mentioned investments or cryptocurrency?
Romance fraud can overlap with investment fraud, with criminals using emotional relationships to persuade victims to invest.
7. Do their personal details contradict each other?
Check names, locations, employment history and other information for inconsistencies.
8. Are you being asked to keep the relationship secret?
Secrecy can prevent friends and family from identifying warning signs.
9. Does their online identity appear unusually limited?
A person may have a convincing dating profile but very little independently verifiable information.
10. Do you feel that something does not add up?
Your concerns should not be dismissed simply because the relationship feels genuine.